Consulting | 3-C's

Relationships can be the greatest joy of our life but can also bring us more sorrow than we could ever imagine.  Learning to navigate the 3 C’s skillfully can lead us to relational victory, reduce conflict, and calm our anxieties.  We can learn Emotional Intelligence (EQ), grow, change, and strengthen our relationships by investing in training and tools to help us become the best version of ourselves.  What if you could maintain strong connections, communicate clearly, and strengthen your ability to collaborate with people who think, speak, and see things differently than you?

1. Connection |  Connecting with people different from you can be challenging, confusing, and sometimes cause a great deal of anxiety.  Yet, when we can see people’s strengths and weaknesses not as wrong vs. right or good vs. bad, but come to believe we are all uniquely created and equally valuable, we can grow relationally.  We can increase our awareness of one another’s strengths, accept one another’s weaknesses, and take action to become the best version of ourselves.  This growth allows us to bring our best contributions to our companies, teams, families, and friendships. 
2. Communication |  How we communicate with others often occurs according to our style of hearing and speaking.  We each have a preferred method of hearing and speaking.  What if you understood that there are four different communication styles and could shift to a person’s style when speaking with them?  When we can hear and listen to all types of people, no matter how different we are, communication becomes clear, relational conflict is reduced, confusion is minimized, and anxiety is dissolved. 
3. Collaboration |  Collaborating with people, teams, and families can be frustrating when we see things from a different point of view.  Yet, we all contribute according to our unique wiring.  When we seek to understand others’ perspectives and value our differences, we can collaborate closely with people radically different from us.  We learn to view relationships like a puzzle, and each person is like a piece of the puzzle.  All pieces are needed to complete the job.  We need corner pieces, middle pieces, and straight pieces coming together to make a complete picture.    

I offer relational training and tools to help teams, groups, and families know who they are, how to connect with all types of people, how to communicate clearly, and why it’s essential to be able to collaborate, especially with people who are radically different from you.  I believe we are all valuable, unique, and gifted by God.